Hello everyone🙏, I hope you all are doing good😄
Today, I want to share my thoughts on a very important topic🙋.. To be straightforward, I must tell you, that today I’m here to share my feelings, infact every Indian girl’s feeling on… something every man should know💁…
We, Indian women are sometimes called as narrow-minded 🙅🙆 by some extremely broad minded guys 🙇…
But, what actually makes us so?
Let me elaborate…
Some men ask us whether we are on facebook or instagram. And if we try to just say a polite No. They don’t take it so, rather they make jokes on our narrow mentality😏…
But, let me tell you who’s mentality is more narrow😬..
First of all, they think that they’ll always be satisfied by a ‘Yes’, even if they chat with us (to whom they are completely strangers), or message us at night. I’m a student who has to study at night. Hence, to avoid all distractions, I keep my WiFi off and usually I’m busy in the morning hours for getting ready to school. Therefore, I don’t check my notifications at the morning. And sometimes similar situations arise, but those extremely broad minded guys say, it’s our narrow mentality to answer their super important questions sooo late!
Yet, you are right👏..we are norrow minded😬😄..
It’s sooo sad to say, but we still live in such a society where some boys are sooooo brave and mighty💪, that they have never heard a No in their lives, and what is more disappointing is that, there are still some girls who try to please them or not hurt their extremely sensitive temperament!
Some of thoese special men, who are very powerful and mighty💪, but not brave enough to accept a girl’s No, throw acid on them.. But, still they are brave… But, who makes them so?
Some men learn how to speak english, and how to eat pasta, pizza, burger etc. They wear shirts, jeans and highly branded foreign shoes. But if that’s not enough, they even want a girl who’s a foreigner or like her.. Because, for them, foreigners never say No. But sorry to tell you, they SAY IT. Some men say, foreigners are tooo broad minded.. But it’s my question to them, how many foreigners do you actually know?🙇💁
You want to live like foreigners, in a country like foreign, but the idea of LGBT rights make your society dirty!?
Now, you must be thinking why am I overreacting and why am I saying It’s You (even if you don’t do anything such)?😐😏
It’s because, even if you don’t do anything such, but do you ever try to stop it!? 😑😑
You say that you are very shareef (decent) but first of all you very well know your level of decency, and second, just ignoring and doing no wrong, doesn’t makes you better..
You call me narrow minded and yourself as a gentleman. Then I think that you very well know the society we live in😬.. And I believe that if you really were some gentleman, then, rather than making fun of my narrow mentality, you should have been proud, that teenagers of YOUR country are now much more aware of what is good for them and what is not.
There are some people on social media with a bio like: Laddu ko bhabhi chahiye, humko sapno ki rani chahiye💘 #AwaraMajnu.. (Laddu wants a sister-in-law and I want a queen for my dreams #RoadsideRomeo)😄.. I usually delete their friend request, but now I fear he’ll make jokes on me, if not that, he’ll call me a NARROW MINDED PERSON!! Oh God..😰
Do you know, why still in 2018 we hear news about small girls getting raped? I didn’t knew before, but now I know.. It’s because some people teach us, that if we don’t tell them our insta or fb username, we’ll become narrow minded and mocked by all, and they’ll be praised and appreciated by all. 😬😬
But let me tell you NOT all Indian men are like that… But unfortunately, some extremely broad minded overthinkers are born everywhere.. Please note my word overthinkers..😬
I’d soooo much to say, but I won’t coz I fear that those extremely broad minded overthinkers will again make a mess out of it.. But I’m not interested.
Sorry if I hurt you, but actually I’m trying to be less narrow minded and a bit more straightforward.
And remember, it’s not just my thinking. We all think the same, even your mother.😉 🇮🇳
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