Siblings – (n.) each of two or more children or offspring having one or both parents in common; a brother or sister.
But, What actually is a sibling!?๐ถ
Maybe I’m the perfect one who can answer this, as I’ve two siblings: both brother and sister & younger and elder. So, I’m actually a walking encyclopedia of Siblings. ๐
I’ve two siblings: an elder sister and a younger brother. So, I’m stuck in the middle. But lemme tell you, I’ve got the perfect rank than these two. Why? That’s becauseย I have an elder sister to whom I can share all my (girly) problems. And a younger brother who’s my partner in crime! ๐
If you’re thinking that having a sibling is like love and affection.. Then sorry dear, you’re wrong, coz it’s literally all about rivalry and ultimate craziness. ๐
When you have a sibling younger than you, but smarter๐… Then, there’s always a competition, not just for grades, but for everything. Everything turns into a battlefield with two mighty warriors fighting for their….everything๐ . And this battle is never-ending.๐
Situations get worse when parents favour one other the another๐ฟ. Hence, the battle gets more fierce. Now, one mighty warrior, completely broken from inside, fights with a large army, all alone, but yet not willing to be defeated.๐ค
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Usually, when two siblings fight, they don’t talk to each other for hours or days. But in my case, it is pretty different๐. We are three๐ช, therefore, if I fight with my brother, he’ll go and team up with my sister. And I’m all lonely and helpless๐ฉ and those two will just enjoy to the fullest๐ฒ. And, of course, I’ll feel jealous๐ค and will wait for the very little spark to ignite a fire between the two.๐
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I’ve my sis, with whom I can share all my girly secrets (and dresses)๐. But my poor bro.. As my father is usually in his office and spends very less time at home, therefore my brother has to live with three ladies (mom, sis n me) and hear all our gossips.๐ I feel very pity for him and I constantly try to be his bro๐. That’s why he’s very close to me as I do my best to be his partner in crime.
Tbh we’ve done many undercover missions (๐ ) like stealing cheese from the fridge to unlocking my sister’s mobile phone (to read her chats), and soo much more๐ .
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There’s something very dangerous ’bout these creatures known as siblings๐. They’re something wilder than wild animals (especially when they’re kids). At first, they’ll attract you with their cuteness๐ผ. And if once, you’re tricked by it, then only God can save you from their talents of Scratching and Biting. And if that’s not enough, they’ll use their ultimate weapon of Nonstop Crying ๐ญ.. And the rest is too painful to explain๐ฒ. So, just leave it..๐
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The synonym of siblings can be blackmailers. I’m lucky to have two blackmailers๐. My sis is not that expert one. But lemme clear it, there’s no goodness in her which reduces her frequency of blackmailing. In fact, there’s just a logic. What logic? She knows, that if she just squeaks even one of my (only-shared-to-her) secret, I’ll too open up a bunch of her (only-shared-to-me) secrets๐๐ฃ. Hence, there’s no use of blackmailing๐
But unfortunately, my bro isn’t that easy๐. He, of course, has no that kinda secrets. But that mouse in the avatar of my bro๐ญ, can fit (hide) anywhere and peep my mobile phone password and can overhear all my conversations๐ฉ. Therefore, he’s the most dangerous and a perfect blackmailer๐.
Lemme share an incident. I don’t know how he came to know about one of my classmate’s name (of course a boy). And one day, while a family (big Indian family๐ช๐ญ๐ฌ๐ซ๐ช๐ซ) gathering, he and I had some sort of fight, so, as to take a revenge he told my cousin that, I’ve got a boyfriend named … (my classmate’s name) ..and we study in the same class๐. And this news had spread like a fire among all my cousins and everyone began to ask me, that who is he!? I couldn’t prove my innocence, as they all asked that, why has your bro took only one name out of all boys, and that too with such confidence!? ๐จ
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I don’t know why siblings look cuter in school๐. Even if we had a fight and we’re not talking to each other, but whenever I see them at school, I feel like hugging them and introduce them to my entire class. Idk why it happens?๐
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Siblings are born to disagree with you. Why? Lemme explain. Even when I’m wearing my most stylish dress and with the best looks. My sister would always say that I look like a monkey ๐ต. And, when I tell her, that I got the highest marks in my class. She says, “Ya, I know that this teacher is really very partial and always favours the weak students so that they improve…”๐ณ And this disagreement is in everything.. EVERYTHING!๐ฌ
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Elder Siblings may seem innocent, but they’re a bullier๐ .
When I was a kid, my sis used to tell me, that my parents bought me from a shop ๐ถ. And also, that she’s the one who chose me among several other pretty kids (and my parents were choosing another kid over me๐จ)! I used to feel very grateful to her๐until when I actually came to know how kids are born from the mother when my bro was in her womb. I was really surprised, literally SHOCKED๐ต, and couldn’t trust my sister anymore. She was earlier a Goddess๐ฐ for me, but now a DEVIL๐ฟ….
Whenever we used to play teacher–teacher, I used to be a student and her, a teacher as always๐. So, I once protested her and finally became a teacher, and she was the Principal.๐
Well, these painful experiences made me always stand against bullying๐. And I always respected my bro’s opinions equally and that’s why we are really too good togetherโบ. And that’s why my mother always trusts to leave my bro with me rather than leaving him with my sis.๐
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We have a lot of fights, and we make fun of each other every time๐. But if, anyone else (even our friends) squeak a single word against anyone of us. We are ready to literally attack that person! ๐ฟ๐ก
We have a bitter-sweet relation๐, but when our mother scolds anyone of the trio, the other two defend.๐
Sometimes, mum becomes quiet (which is very rare), if not that, she scolds the trio altogether!๐๐
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Having siblings is so much fun, only when you value them๐. But, fights with siblings is a part of daily routine..๐ ๐
Hope you enjoyed.๐
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I haven’t finished reading the post, I just want to go directly in the comment!
This post makes me sad. I haven’t talked with my little sister for months!
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Oh๐.. I hope you talk to her soon..๐๐
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I hope so โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ
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I’m watching your notifications pop up you know ๐คฃ
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Love this post! Again So relatable๐
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Thank you sooo much sweetie!!๐๐ธ
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I love this!
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My goodness, Avni, you are writing the story of my life here. Just a few differences though, I have two sisters and FOUR brothers with only one brother older than me. He was the devil in disguise when we were young, always leading me into trouble. I was so enamored by him that I actually thought big brothers can do no wrong. That’s a laugh! He did wrong but he got away with it while I got into trouble. He once burned a barn down while showing me how the blocks our house was built of were fire proof. They were but the straw he stuffed down in them were NOT! And to make it worse, the barn belonged to our Uncle, not our own.
Keep on writing these stories. I think you are living my old childhood, only in a different country. And thanks for following me.
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Oh Really.. Even, I too believed that elder brothers are veey matured, protective and concerned๐.. But maybe I’m wrong..๐ณ๐ฌ
Yeah, even if we live in different countries or speak different languages, after all we are humans and this makes us one.. Maybe that’s why we all feel very similar when we talk about our experiences..๐๐ (this is what my highly diverse India has taught me).. Thanks๐
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Lol very funny
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Thank you soooo much..๐๐
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Wow hahahahaha. I can relate to this. completely ๐๐ ๐๐
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Thanks๐๐… It’s sooo fun to meet soooo many relateable people๐๐ฌ๐…
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Siblings get better with age.
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Hmm.. That’s true๐๐
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Nice post, bringing back beautiful childhood memories!
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Thank you soo much๐.. I’m glad you liked it.. ๐ Childhood memories are always cherished by all… They are a real treasure..๐
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A treasure, that no one can steal from us..๐
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Very sweet post. When smaller my little brother used to blackmail me and get me to clean his room ๐ reading this brought a plethora of memories back to meโฆ
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Thank you…
Ohh… That means little brothers are mainly blackmailers.. ๐๐ Your bro must be lucky to have an elder sis so nice..๐ as this blackmailing trick cannot work on my sis..๐
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Our Dad was very strict and I mainly complied out of fear.๐ However, looking back now I realise that was very wicked of him ๐ taking advantage like that …
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Oh.. ๐ Yess.. Looking back on our childhood makes us feel soo good and even more energetic.. Right now,while I’m reading everyone’s comment, I’m feeling soo connected as if we all had lived the same childhood, and had the same experiences..๐ It makes me feel soooooo goooood…๐๐
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Haha and so it should.. ๐ You have brought everyone together with your tale and we’re all conjuring up images from our childhood past. Quite a powerful thing you’ve done here ๐
I look forward to more from you.
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I’m feeling satisfied too.. Thanks.. I never knew my simple and non professional blog would make soo many people smile. ๐๐๐
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I enjoyed the truth of this. I am the youngest of 5. Siblings, yes but no one behind me. I often felt like I was dragged behind. An afterthought. Today however, we are all friends and there for each other in heart (not in physical proximity). I wouldn’t trade them for anything.
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I’m sooo happy that you enjoyed๐. Ohk I can understand the problems of being the youngest one as I observe my brother. Being youngest sometimes is troublesome. But its a fact that parents and elders usually love the youngest one the most. Ya, we me and my sis too had a lot of misunderstandings as kids, but now as teens, we’re the best buddies. I pray to God that all 5 of you remain happy and close to each other forever.. ๐๐
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Good evening dear,
It is not in all cases some siblings are very caring too, it depends on the surrounding and they love and care each other always.
Thank you
Best regards
SK
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Good evening,
Yes, I totally agree with you.. Even my siblings too love and care for me, some of what is shown in the last lines. But actually, I wrote this blog to make people remember their childhood. No matter how caring a bro or sis is, those bitter-sweet incidents make this beautiful relationship quite different from other relationships. And remembering those moments always bring smile to our face. We always cherish those moments and they are always close to our heart. And no matter how much siblings love each other, there are some bittersweet moments and if not thats too great.
I wrote different situations which occur when we live with siblings and as you can see the comments. People are remembering those moments and are missing them. Even if only for a minute, but we stopped to remember those lovely moments, which we usually forget to cherish. You can yourself see the comments. I totally agree to you. My aunt’s son have never fought with each other in there lives. They are exceptional, and your comment reminds me of them..
Thank you.
Best wishes
Avni
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Good day dear,
I, truly agree with you .
I do miss my siblings a lot ,
remembering all those things
we use to share and fight for,
at the end of day, say sorry to
each other sit on dinner together have food,
those moment of life is valuable memory forever.
Life is wonderful always ๐จโ๐ฉโ๐งโ๐ฆ๐จโ๐งโ๐ฆ
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Hmm.. So true.. ๐๐๐
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Dear Avni,
I, thankful to you today for writing such a beautiful blog on siblings , it is very nice.
Best regards
SK
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Hello,
I’m really very grateful that you appreciated and liked my efforts. I’m still a learner ready for suggestions.
Best wishes
Avni
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Good day dear Avni,
You are very nice , please keep it up always ,
you get the best result , never stop learning ๐ค๐
Thank you very much.
Best regards
SK
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Thank you soo much.. It’s sooo nice of you..
Yes I’m always willing to learn more and improve my writing skills…
You’re welcome.
Avni
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Dear avni,
Great job,
All the best in study.
Good luck to you
Thank you
SK
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Thank you sooo much๐
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Good morning dear Avni,
You are welcome always.
Thank you very much
Best regards
SK
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An interesting view on life with siblings!
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Thanksss.. ๐๐ everything gets interesting with siblings ๐๐
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Beautiful!๐
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Thank you sooo much๐
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hahahahaha I too have elder sister and a younger brother.. I can understand your pain and happiness. there is one more thing u left. Whenever they two fight and we try to settel their fight they only say one thing – ‘you always favor your brother/sister’ at that time i want to bang me head. gggrrrr
my position is same like … like every incident u shared, My brother advise me some key notes on having Crush and BFs ๐ ๐ ๐
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Okay… So we can really understand each other’s situation well.. Oh yesss.. It was such an imp. point..How can I forget it!? It always happens with me.. That’s why whenever they fight, I say “You idiot stop fighting!” And when my sister looks at me with anger, I say that I’m saying to him. And she turns to continue her fight and my bro looks at me, so I wink and stand behind my sis acting like her. So my bro starts thinking that I’m with his side.๐๐๐ But actually I’m with no one.
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hahahahahah same here ๐ but its an enjoyable journey… you know what we use to play WWE at home and I smack them ๐ ๐ . Me and my brother use to play some freaky game in summer noon – Fauji Too too Abhiyan shuru ๐ ๐ we both are maniac and I love this game
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Hahah.. Oh really๐๐ The name seems too interesting.. We three too used to play a lot of games. In our games we used to be undercover agents and do treasure hunts, and we use to name ourselves as tv characters and then act like them.. That trick was used by my mother too, to make us each spinach by turning us into Popeye, the sailor man..๐๐
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Hhahahahahahahha same here we were undercover agent and was highly influenced by Shaktiman and Aryaman ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ I adore those days ….. we destroy sofa , make up box of my mother …… we are too good in building great suspending stories ๐๐๐๐๐
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Yeah exactly. Sometimes I feel that it was because of these shows which have ignited creativity in our mindes.. No matter how big we become, we will never forget Shaktiman, Shararat, Shakalaka Bumbum, Karishma ka Karishma…. And sooooo much moreeeee๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐
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Yeah !!! They made our childhood unforgettable
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Sometimes I feel sorry for our future generation.. They missed sooo many things which mobiles and internet can never replace..
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U r ryt ……. ๐๐
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Maybe then, we’ll talk like our parents.. “Arre beta, tv shows jo hua karte the, vo toh hamare zamane mein hua karte the…”๐๐๐
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Hahahahhahahah ha pir zamana aajayega
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Actually my bro is too small to give me key notes on having crush n bfs. ๐ But that’s too cool.. ๐
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my brother i 2 years younger than me but act like he is elder than me ๐
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My bro is 4 yrs younger than me.. But in this case I’m like your bro, because I give my elder sis all type of advises, which are usually given by elder sis..๐ ๐
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We did a long chat… But it was soo fun.. I’m happy to have soo many new friends now..๐
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same here ๐
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Very adorable.
I know what you mean.
Though I am the middle child, I am the eldest one. And I wound have experienced the same what you had, but I never got a chance at it.
Keep writing. ๐
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Thanks..๐
Okh.. I see.. I’m the middle one, but everyone thinks that I’m the eldest. My elder sis’s a bit childish whereas I’m more serious than her. And I’m more like an advisor to her. So I think I’ve a double role and can somewhat figure out how the eldest one feels and experience๐
Yes, sure..๐
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This was so cute and accurate!
I experience everything you mentioned on a daily basis.
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Thanks๐๐… Okay๐.. Me too, that’s why I tried to share some of it to all..๐๐ Siblings can sometimes be very irritating, but they are the closest and the best buddies..๐
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Very true ๐
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